The Older I Get

...a warning before you read this: it could get quite depressing - or uplifting.  We'll see what happens.

Last night, we celebrated Kevin's 30th Birthday.  It was a perfect night - surrounded by great food, good beer, and the people that we love!  It was really a nice illustration of the richness of our lives.  But, along with the planning came a lot of reflection (on my part, can't speak for Kevin) on what it means to be getting 'older.'  I'm 28 at the time, but they say girls are 2 years more mature than boys.  So, I don't know if that means I'm mentally 30 or if Kevin is mentally 28 - but the truth is that there's a lot more you realize with "age" - for better or for worse, so here goes.

The older I get, the more I realize how important relationships are: not quantity, but quality...and how listening (and asking questions) is the key to a great relationship.  So, whether it's family or friends, I constantly trying to make it less about me and more about them.  And frankly, I have a lot of work to do here.  All in all, I'm loving how much closer we are to our family and friends now that we've moved back to Mpls. THIS is what helps brush off the crappy weather we have here.  But seriously, we should ALL think about moving together to a warmer place.

The older I get, the more I realize there's waaaaaaay more to making a good career for yourself than just doing a good job.  Which sucks, because really, I just want to go do a good job and move-on-up.  It's really more like a game of chess - which I can't even really tell you how to play chess.  I guess it's just trial & error and taking chances.

The older I get, the more I realize how hard it is to get rich - and I also realize how I don't really care if I'm rich, I just care that I can have a comfortable life.  I mean, once upon a time, I thought I was going to have a big house and a red Corvette by the time I turned 26.  Bahahaha.

The older I get, the more I realize how women can let society's pressures get to them.  I used to have this vision that motherhood + careerdom + being hot + homemaking + friendships + more could all add up to pure awesomeness.  But more and more, I know that one cannot be awesome at all of these things - and I'm not even a Mom yet.  And I also realize how grown women can constantly feel inadequate.  It's because we compare ourselves too often - and we have to stop that, but we won't stop, so we just have to live with it.

The older I get, the more I realize that the more comfortable I am with who I am on the inside, the more UNcomfortable I will get with who I am on the outside.

The older I get, the more I realize that this might actually be MID-life.  Zoiks.

And finally, the older I get, the more I realize how I struck gold when I found Kevin.  Seriously though - when it comes to husbands, it doesn't get that much better than this :)  This Feb marks 8 years since our first date. Crazy.  Looking forward to the next 8 years, Babe - It's going to be a wild ride!!







 

The Zipper Merge: Learn it, Love it, DO IT!

This morning while I was merging on to 100 north, a car stopped at the beginning of the entry lane to merge into traffic, causing all of the cars behind it (including me) to have to SLAM on their brakes.  After taking a deep breath, I drove around the car to use the remainder of the lane to merge into traffic.

When suddenly, this crazed lady started trying to BLOCK me by straddling the lines between the two lanes so that I COULDN'T PASS HER.  She nearly hit me into the guard rail while she was laying on her horn!

Well, I am clearly a superior driver to her because I know that the rule of the road is to use the full merge lane and proceeded to do so.

Minnesotans are SO BAD at driving, especially in rush hour (presumably because of "MN NICE"), that the state had to create an entire campaign to inform MN drivers about this.

So, I'll continue letting people in who "come to the front of the line" because they're driving correctly: they're NOT jerks.

http://www.dot.state.mn.us/zippermerge/

Best Wifey Ever: Packers Game Day Edition

Whenever Kevin thinks the dinner I made is awesome, he says, "Best wifey ever."  So, I'm going to name my recipe posts "Best Wifey Ever" because I wouldn't share them with you unless he give them this seal of approval.

It's Sunday, and we're getting ready to watch the Packer (vs. Giants) game.  I LOVE to make chili + some kind of corn bread or biscuit for Packer games, so in true traditional fashion, I did.

But, I've been wanting to try...

Wait - Jordy Nelson just scored a TD!!! Wahoo! He's seriously a stud.  Now, Crosby, don't miss the extra point, K?

Anyway, I've been wanting to try a white chicken chili for a while now. I was prepping to make some frozen dinners for a friend who had her second little baby boy (I visited on Friday and could NOT get enough of him).  I made her this same recipe but all I got was one spoonful to approve the taste.

It's a great recipe - just enough spice, and next time, I'll prob use milk instead of whipping cream, but it's Thanksgiving weekend so might as well LIVE IT UP!

http://www.annies-eats.com/2008/09/25/white-bean-chicken-chili/

In other news, Roger's stache is epic.

GO PACK GO!

Super Seckzy Sox

As many of you know, I fall down the stairs a lot.
A LOT.

So, I've been keeping an eye out for a *cheap* pair of slippers/socks with grippies on the bottom.

Kevin was SO excited to see this sexiness when he got home from class tonight...

He said, "They're probably necessary."

Greasy Magazine Pages

About once every 2 weeks, Kevin and I get inspired to make a nice dinner at home.  Sometimes Kevin participates, and sometimes he just watches football - since our tendency to cook something usually lands on a Sunday.

But, tonight, we made this super yummy recipe from the November issue of Real Simple mag.  As cool as people are on Pinterest, I usually end up following recipes from magazines.  Maybe it's the glossy pictures?

Anyway, along came "Pasta with sausage, arugula and crispy bread crumbs." Gotta love a recipe that tells you EXACTLY what your signing up for.

It was so good that I wanted to share with you all.  The combo of Italian sausage and thyme was a quite interesting twist to the typical flavors experienced in the Pisca household.  Plus, it was pretty easy to make, and only had a few ingredients.  So, I'm guessing this recipe will happen again!

Apologies for the poor photo.

I was going to type out the recipe, but here's the link instead:  http://bit.ly/RpjNmi

Obvi, we used mini farfalle (sp?) pasta instead of the fancy shmancy pasta found in the recipe (we shop at Target, people!).  Plus, in true Wisconsinite fashion, we had to add some cheese to the dish, so try a little Parmesan cheese sprinkled on the top.

Between this and the white chocolate macadamia cookies that are in the oven, I get an award for Best. Wifey. Ever. from Kevin, or at least I SHOULD!

Nom.

Dating a Diet

So...

Kevin came to me a few weeks ago and said, "Babe, I want to go on the Paleo diet." I was loading the dishwasher and nearly dropped a plate.  For ya'all that don't know - Kevin is skinny. Like REAL skinny.

I responded by asking why in the world he would want to go on a diet.  "So I can get in racin' shape, BABE."  Racin' shape = bike racing shape - like the guys in the Tour de France.  They are about his height but weigh about 20 lbs less.  In my mind, I cannot fathom how in the world Kevin would have 20 lbs. to lose...keeping in mind, it's likely that I only weigh about 20 lbs less than Kevin.

So, after some prodding, I finally got out of him that it's not about racin' weight, but instead, he was feeling sluggish all day long and wanted to try something new.  So, I suggested we just start out easy and try to cut sugars (beside what's found naturally in fruit and veggies and dairy) and carbs from our diets.  So, we embarked on it.

So far, this week, we've been doing well.  A big vat of Chili Monday night has made great left overs for lunch/dinners, and I made some pulled pork in the slow cooker.  We fill in with things like raw broccoli, cauliflower, carrots, eggs (every which way you can imagine), turkey bacon, plain greek yogurt - and I introduced Kevin to Larabars today (WIN!).  We indulge in sugar free fudgesickles ;)

But, you should have seen us tonight after volleyball league - super hungry because we had an early dinner.  We got home and went straight to the pickle jar.  It was quite a scene to behold.

I also had to send Kevin an email today that had the subject: "Confession - I ate a cookie."

Dieting sure is easier when your spouse is on board :)

Hey, Why not?

Today at work, in a conversation with Legal, we started talking about chain emails.  I thought to myself: I miss those survey-type ones!  So, I found one from an old friend of mine, so here goes!

Height: 5'6" - after being with Kevin for over 6 years now, he asked me how tall I am, and when I said 5'6," he called me short
Shoe Size: 9.5/10
Sexual Orientation: I like boys - one in particular;)
Age you get mistaken for: 24ish
Have Tattoos? Nope, definitely not.
Want any tattoos? I'm definitely not against tattoos - just can't think of something beautiful enough to put on my body forever. 
Got any Piercings? Just ears right now.  Had a nose piercing just a few years ago, and I totally miss it.
Want any piercings? Yes, I'd like my nose piercing back!
Best friend? the hubby
Biggest fears: Not going to lie - I'm afraid of dying or someone close to me dying
Biggest celeb crush: Right now, Ryan Gosling
Favorite Movie: Juno
I’ll love you if: You tell it to me straight
Someone you miss: My grandparents - all of them
Most traumatic experience: I was in charge of the store during my internship at Target and a girl had a seizure. I can't handle seizures.
A fact about your personality: I can be completely reserved or 100% transparent, it all depends on who else is in the room.
What I hate most about myself: My lack of patience
What I love most about myself: My general ability to quickly forgive and forget the small stuff
What I want to be when I get older: Content
My relationship with my sibling(s): Love my bro & sis :)
My idea of a perfect date: Strolling through a garden, on the beach - anywhere where we can focus 100% on each other/our conversation without interuption or distractions
My biggest pet peeves: When people use the 's inappropriately for plural's
A description of the girl/boy I like: Passionate & dedicated
What my last text message says: "On my way home" - a status to the husband
What words upset me the most: "If you come with the idea, it will get funded"
What words make me feel the best about myself: "Erin adds a lot of value to the team"
Where I would like to live. maybe Austin, TX?
One of my insecurities. My presentation skills - I have one tomorrow at 9 AM
My childhood career choice. I thought I wanted to be a Doctor.  But then, I was a lifeguard and sheer anxiety that someone might get hurt and that it would be up to me to help was enough to sway that decision.
My favorite ice cream. COOKIES N CREAM is where it's at.
Who I wish I could be. There's really no one person I'd pick.  Maybe bits & pieces here and there?
Where I want to be right now. I'm really itching for a vacation.
The last thing I ate. A Jell-o Sugar Free pudding cup. South Beach Diet Savior.
A random fact about anything: Someone told me that it takes more calories for your body to digest a raspberry than is actually in the raspberry. Don't tell me if this isn't true!

Sorry if this was boring but not a lot of readers. ha!